It’s been a minute since I blogged about my dating life, but let’s get to it:
You’re Married. Thanks For the Memo
A while back I met this man via Facebook (gotta stop doing that) and he seemed really cool at the time. We would talk about the goodness of God, our goals and ambitions, and he was really digging me. Over time he became more aggressive about “being with me”. This sent up red flags everywhere. I am a firm believer that people who are pushy about locking you down usually have some issues, and they want to hook you before you can figure out what it is. I finally broke down and let this man into my life a little and after spending more time together I decided that he really wasn’t the one for me. So in my mind I just let it die out and I kept my communication with him to a dull minimum. Fast forward to last Saturday I get a message from him on FB responding to a message I sent eons ago telling me that we couldn’t have a future because he’s a married man. Yes. Married. Get there. So my response was, “OK, why didn’t you say something before?” He said he just didn’t but he is doing right and he can’t deal with me anymore. OK, cool. Why am I not fazed? He and I have not spoken in almost two months and it’s been even longer since I have seen him. What the fuck brought all that on? I promptly deleted him because clearly he is delusional and he’s a liar. I hope he doesn’t think I was sitting around waiting for him because I clearly have moved on.
Georgia on my Mind
I told you all a little bit about Georgia. We have been seeing each other for the last 3 months and I have to say, I really enjoy his company. When we are together everything is really low key and easy. We cuddle, watch movies, crack jokes and have a great time together. He is definately first round draft pick material. We shall see though…..
I have two best friends. One in Georgia and one here. Relations with my friend here are strained at best. I don’t know what went wrong but we have somehow become strangers. It hurts sometimes but I am old enough to know that sometimes that is the circle of life. Nothing last forever. People change, their priorities change and sometimes friendships get lost in that.
I saw myself naked in the mirror today. No Bueno. I hit the gym every now and again, but I am realizing that in order to really get toned and healthy, I am going to need to devote three days a week and I have to do serious cardio. I am vain and I hate sweating, but I want to look good in my clothes. I want to feel confident about my body and right now I don’t.
My eyelash fetish is out of control. Yes, I have turned into that woman that doesn’t leave the house without them. They just really add something to my face. I have become a master at putting them on. Hell, I am able to do it with Chunky milling about crying over me not reading “Good Night Moon”.
That OSHA certification came in handy. The house next to me is being renovated and I made a comment today regarding the removal of the the fiberglass insulation. The foreman asked where I got all this information from and I told him I used to work in safety and we are now in talks for me to do safety checks on some of his upcoming jobs. That will be some money in the bank.
I can’t say life is completely great right now, but I just keep in my head that everyday will get better and all that is happening is part of a bigger plan. Stay tuned…..